Adult Toys Are More Than Just Fun: They Make Great Sex Like Child's Play

No, toys are not just for children. There are a slew of adult toys on the market that make sex more fun, exciting, and satisfying for both you and her.

Introducing an accessory into the bedroom (figuratively speaking) may seem like a bold and risky maneuver, as if by doing so you're suggesting that "mere" sex alone between the two of you isn't satisfying enough in and of itself. That you need a separate tool or device to make it enjoyable now.

But much to the contrary, adding an adult toy into your lovemaking is can enhance the sexual experience for both of you in unimaginable ways. And by using it together, it can actually bring the two of you even closer. In truth, as bold and risky as it may seem, using sex toys are also as potentially rewarding, as they add variety, spice, and freshness into the sex act. Using a sex toy together is a whole new way of exploring and discovering each other's bodies.

The following are some of the most effective sex toys in massively increasing her pleasure – and yours!

Dildos: Dildos of different sizes allow women the experience of feeling different lengths and thicknesses inside them while receiving all that variety of stimulation from the same man – you. With dildos, you don't have to be concerned whether you're too small or too big, too thin or thick, long or stubby – because you can be all things (or rather: all penises) to your woman.

Using a dildo allows you to achieve new and interesting positions impossible with your actual member inside her, allowing you to reach different parts of her body and explore other ways of stimulating her with your hands, mouth, and other body parts. Imagine being able to give her the experience of penetration and oral stimulation at the same time! Or even double-penetration – with you in one orifice and the dildo in the other.

And if you just so happen to be one of those particularly adventurous types of guys, the two of you can even explore having her insert the dildo into you. This isn't for everybody, but for the ready, willing, and able, it's an incomparable treat. In fact, if this is something that interests you, a strap-on dildo can amplify the experience by allowing her, rather than using her hands, to thrust her hips and groin into you for a change.

Vibrators: Essentially power-charged dildos, vibrators add a nice extra sensation to the experience. There are a number of ways to use vibrators to delight your woman. Besides the obvious move of just sticking it in her, you can also use it to tickle the folds of her vagina and labial lips and her clitoris. Vibrators (and dildos alike, as a matter of fact) are also extremely helpful tools in helping bring her to orgasm (be it the first, second, third, or a mind-blowing multiple orgasm) even when your peter's plum tuckered out.

Anal Beads and Butt Plugs: For women (and some men too) who enjoy anal stimulation (and if you aren't sure, you should at least give it a try), these anal stimulators are a pleasure to play with. The joy of anal beads (rather like a string of extra-large pearls) comes in the act of gently pulling them out, one by one. A butt plug, on the other hand, can be inserted and left there to provide extra-enhanced sensations in that area while other body parts are being focused on. And as you hopefully know by now, one powerful way to please a woman is to stimulate more than one part of her body at the same time.

Cock Rings: These small circular hoops (some made of steel, some of rubber, some of other materials altogether) restrict the flow of blood away from the penis, thereby engorging the head and shaft and making for longer lasting erections. To reiterate, a cock-ring makes it bigger and harder and stay that way longer. It also prolongs your ability to stave off orgasm and ejaculation, giving her more time to build up the energy she needs to climax and, as an added benefit, when you do finally cum, typically the orgasm is wildly more spectacular than any orgasm you ever had without one.

There are a couple of different types of cock-rings for you to consider, as well. One goes just around the shaft of your penis, resting at the base, above the scrotum, where it meets your pelvis. Another goes around both your shaft and your scrotum. Each is a delight in its own right. And each merits trying at least once in your sex life.

Condoms and Lube: While not exactly sex toys per se, lubricants and condoms are now being made with functions far more expansive than their obvious utilitarian uses. You can find lubricants and gels that are warming, heating up after applied, and heating up even more after regular stimulation (like thrusting). Condoms, on the other hand, can be flavored, making oral sex a whole new experience, or ribbed, providing her extra stimulation during intercourse.

Everyday Household Objects as Sexual Enhancers

While we'll skip going into the relative merits and drawbacks of using produce, for example, as a sex toy, it is worth mentioning that there are several everyday solutions to a staid and redundant sex life. And while not quite sex toys in and of themselves, these common features of any home could add brand new dimensions to your lovemaking.

Light: That's right – leave the lights on. The value of visual stimulation in the sex act is not to be diminished.

Porn: Along similar lines, there is nothing wrong with watching pornography together to get in the mood in a new and thrilling way. You can even discover new sex acts, positions, accessories, and fantasies to explore together this way.
Mirrors: Watching yourselves having sex can be a incredible turn-on.
Lingerie/Costumes: Bring fantasies to life through the seductive use of choice pieces of clothing.

Remember: sex toys are not just for masturbation anymore (nor really were they ever). They can be an exciting and adventurous tool for mutually exploring and experiencing new heights of stimulation and pleasure together. There's certainly no shame in that. Just heaps of good, good, good vibrations.