Sometimes there is the question of "when" you should approach a girl.
How about if you just came in and still have your coat on?
How about if she just came in the bar and didn't even get her first drink yet? How about if she is on her way to the bathroom?
I don't have 100% correct answers to these types of situations, but I do know that there will ALWAYS ALWAYS be a better time to approach a girl. You can always be in a better mood, you can be more "on," the environment could be quieter, or she could be standing still simply looking around for any guy to talk to her.
What's more important than picking the right time to talk to a girl?
TALKING TO THE GIRL.
If you sit there thinking about if you should talk to her, and then end up not even trying, then it didn't really matter did it? There is the "best" time and then there is "opportunity." If you see an opportunity with a girl who is going to the bathroom because you are in her path, you should take it because I'll bet you the best time to approach her will never happen.
Besides, if there was a bar or club where the best situation always happened, I bet you it would fill up with guys pretty quick.
As long as you open your mouth and say something, you're halfway there. Okay maybe not halfway but approaching really is the hardest part of the game. I guarantee the more you think about approaching, the less you will do it.
Most guys have never approached a girl in their life. Imagine that. So instead the only girls they meet are from friends or the plain girls that approach them first.
And even when they meet girls, they have no idea how to build attraction and take things to the next level. If the girl does it for them, then great, but if not then back to You Porn.
That was me, and I got tired of watching a small percentage of guys get most of the women while I sit out begging for scraps (that I didn't get). I put myself on a mission to be THAT guy, the one that you see in a club and hate because he's getting girls even though he has average looks and dresses like a bum with t-shirts his little sister bought for him years ago.
After I figured it out, I wrote how to do it in Bang. This is no easy fix… I'm not selling magic pheromones here. I'm handing you the the knowledge and it's up to you to practice it… until you become THAT guy. If you haven't already bought the book, check out full length sample pages today…
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This post is a masterpiece! You make some really good on key points that a lot of guys need to remember out in the dating field! You have to man up! Though I don't think bars and clubs are the best way to meet women, unless your looking for a trashy one night stands or short-term love lol! loving the material! -trizz