I’m going to skip the whole moral argument that you shouldn’t hit on a girl who has a boyfriend. If you don’t believe in hitting on girls who have boyfriend then that’s cool, otherwise read on.
First, don’t even bother with newly engaged or married girls. I think you’ll have better chances with a nun than a girl who just made a huge commitment with another man. It takes at least a few months for that to wear out.
If you listen to women talk about men, you’ll often hear them use the word “ANNOYING” to describe certain men and certain things that some men DO.
Now, as you can probably guess, it’s not usually a good thing when a woman uses this particular word to describe a guy…
And, as you can ALSO probably guess, when a woman uses this particular word, it’s not usually about guys who she is ATTRACTED to (although this isn’t always true).
About the author: David DeAngelo is one of the world’s most prominent dating consultants, a pioneer of the Seduction Community, and inventor of the “Cocky and Funny” paradigm. He is also an entrepreneur and the bestselling author of several books, ebooks, and audio/video programs including his flagship dating guide, “Double Your Dating“, also the name of his company through which he delivers seminars, workshops, and personal coaching worldwide for both men and women.
If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.
And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a RANT session about how hard it is to find good men to date…
Which will lead to a FULL-ON RAG SESSION about men in general…
…And wind up with a detailed list of all the traits guys have that are ANNOYING AS HELL.
The reality is that single women have an entire laundry list of traits, qualities, and characteristics that they HATE in single guys.
Did you know this?
Attracting women is a very counter-intuitive process. Most of the ‘common-sense’ dating tips & advice you’re likely to think you’re “supposed to” do in dating to make a woman like you – i.e. treat them with courtesy and respect – turn out only to make her want to get as far away from you as she can.
While most of the things you would naturally assume would turn her off only keep her coming back for more. In that vein, this article is designed to show you exactly those counterintuitive measures that you might think women are all just waiting for a guy to exhibit but instead will only do just the opposite, making her lose interest in you, and fast.
Every man wants to know what women want, and here it is in a nutshell—the top 10 qualities that will turn almost any woman on in a heartbeat:
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Confidence: Women don’t like wimps and wusses. Even those who want to baby you, don’t want you to actually be a baby. A woman needs to know that the man she’s with is self-aware and self-assured. That he knows who he is and what he’s about, and more, that he’s perfectly happy with that.
That’s why it’s the arrogant and cocky guys who get all the girls. Because confidence is cool. And cool is hot!
Hot for your friend’s sister? You’re not the first guy to feel this way. It’s a common problem, actually–probably because it’s so hard as it is to meet single women in any type of natural setting or scenario.
You’ve seen her a lot, you probably know her a bit better than you know the girls you catch sight of in “the scene”, and you’ve already got the advantage of at least one thing in common.
WHAT I’VE LEARNED ABOUT WOMEN…
A lot of guys ask me to “sum up” what I’ve learned about women and dating.
They want a “short course” in how to attract and meet women… and how to do it now.
Here are three of the most important “keys” I’ve learned about women and attraction… summarized for you.
I actually believe that most guys have the natural ability to communicate with attractive women in a way that makes them feel attraction… but the problem is that they’ve just never “cultivated” that natural ability… and instead culture, their parents, language, and all kinds of other things have hidden and stunted the development of this talent.
Another thing I’ve learned is that I learn a lot by teaching. I really have enjoyed writing all of these newsletters, interacting with all of my subscribers, teaching seminars in L.A. and New York, doing the teleconference trainings… and working on all the other good stuff that’s going to come out in the next few months.
If you’re good with women, I recommend that you find a guy who isn’t that good, and help him.
I can almost guarantee that you will learn so much more by teaching than you can by doing alone.
And it’s also a very gratifying experience to help other guys learn something that is so important to them.
If you haven’t read Double Your Dating yet, then go download a copy for yourself. It’s the best introduction to women and dating available, and it will help you get more success and results starting tonight.
Here’s a small sample of some of the great things you’ll learn:
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***QUESTION***
Greetings,
I’m considering investing in your program, but I have a question for you before I do. Essentially, I’m no longer looking to hook up with women left and right. In fact, I think I’ve met “the one,” but I’m having trouble making her realize this.
I’ve been pursuing her for about five months (during part of which time she was away at school, but we kept in regular contact, at first through e-mail and, later, over the phone), and I get the sense that she’s very guarded about relationships. She’s *very* goal oriented (which is one of the many things I love about her, BTW), and therefore very busy, and – I suspect – she’s been burned in the past, relationship wise.