You’re in shock.
The realization’s just hit you. Whether she dumped you or you dumped her, you’ve broken up.
The relationship is over. And all you can think is, “What just happened?” or “What did I do wrong?” or “Oh my God, what have I just done?”.
But answering none of those questions is going to help you.
The question that comes next, when the shock settles enough for the regret to consume you, is the one that can make it all better again:
“How do I get her back?”
And the answers to that very question lie below: