I like meeting girls at coffee shops because their guard is down and they are easier to talk to.
To meet them I go to coffee shops that are crowded so that I’m forced to share a table. What I do is look around, find the prettiest girl, and regardless of how much stuff she has on her table, I politely ask if I can join her.
Unless she has a friend coming, the answer will always be yes.
I sit down, get my book or laptop out, and wait a few minutes before I start a conversation, where I make a comment about the environment we’re in (maybe how busy the coffee shop is), a book she is reading, or something unique about her. I often say the first inoffensive question or statement that pops in my head.
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In this article you’ll learn the two fundamental parts of picking up women:
- where to meet them
- and how to meet them
Where Are the Best Places to Meet Women
OK, so you’re sick and tired of bars and clubs – as well you should be. It’s not that the chances of meeting a woman at bar or a club is so small. On the contrary, there is arguably a huger concentration of women – and more: single and available women – in these kinds of places than almost anywhere else. The problems are:
- the competition there is fierce
- the women there have their guards up, expecting they’ll be hit on and preparing to find fault with 99% of the guys who try
As for another method with proven results but equally challenging odds not all of us can be lucky enough to be introduced to our future girlfriend by a mutual friend. It’s rare that opportunities to try even arise, and when they do, most of the time the mutual friend turns out to have done a frightful job calling a “perfect match”. If compatibility matters to you, then don’t refuse an opportunity to be set up with a girl by a mutual friend. Just don’t expect it, don’t look for it, don’t wait around for it, and – for goodness sake – don’t ask them to do it (unless you have a specific woman in mind, in which case it can’t hurt to ask).
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Learning how to get a girl’s number can make the difference between having an active dating life or the romantic relationship you desire and not having any dating life or romantic relationships at all. Next time before you try to get a girl’s number, then, brush up on these 5 sure-fire tips for getting her to hand it over.
Don’t Make a Big Deal Out of It
If you make it seem like your whole world depends on you getting her phone number, all you’re going to do is make her nervous, creep her out, and drive her away. But if you play it low-key, like it’s just a casual question and not a big deal to you whether she says “Yes” or “No” either way, then she won’t feel so pressured by the request and will be more likely to oblige.
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Do you keep frequenting bars and clubs in an effort to meet women, only to come up empty-handed each and every time? If so, then you could use a few pointers on how to meet women, or more to the point: where to meet them.
The Easiest vs. the Hardest Places to Meet Women
The absolute hardest places to meet women are precisely those places renowned for being where men and women go to hook up. When you think about it, it makes perfect sense, as everyone’s there for the same reason, the pressure is at its peak, the competition is at its fiercest, everyone’s standards are through the roof, and everyone’s got their guard up,
On the other hand, everyday life scenarios are the easiest places to meet women for just the opposite reasons: no one’s looking for it, no one’s expecting, everyone’s standards are out the door, the question of pressure isn’t even an issue, and everyone’s got their guard down.
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