The first thing to realize about rejection is that many men have such a huge fear of it that it stops them from ever even trying to win the acceptance of a woman. So answering the question of rejection involves looking at it from two angles: the fear and the rejection.
Fear of rejection is one of the biggest blocks men have to dating. It puts a stop to the process before it’s even started.
We all know about the power of positive thinking. Well, that applies no less powerfully in the dating realm. Fear of rejection is a form of negative thinking that thwarts the very possibility of success. Saddling yourself with this self-defeating fear is akin to locking yourself in a cage where you can live “safe” and alone for the rest of your life.
We get back what we put out there; we attract what we think about. Focusing on rejection, fearing it, only brings more rejection, whereas imagining success, love, intimacy, fun, and affection brings more of those qualities into your life.