It’s what every man wants to know. An ages old mystery. And at least some of the most time-tested and proven answers are right here, in 1200 words or less.
Of course women, like all human beings, want nothing more or less than to have their needs met. What those needs are, however, is not always the same, or in the same proportions, for both women and men.
1. Security
Women yearn to feel safe in the world. Like they’re taken care of. And even in the worst of times, the leanest of times, that they’ll be okay.
Now, in this day and age, many women, maybe even a majority, are no longer looking to men to provide this security and safety for them. They’re no longer depending on a man to make this happen. Rather they’re going out into the world and obtaining that security for themselves.
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It’s become almost a cliché of the dating world that men are fearful of commitment.
But nowadays many women are starting to adopt that same trait too. What’s that about, and how is a man who’s decidedly not afraid of commitment deal with the increasing numbers of women out there who are?
What’s Good for the Gander…
It goes both ways: what’s good for the goose has always been good for the gander, but now the reverse is true as well, and in more ways than ever.
Self-sabotage, stereotyping, “playing the field”, hopping into the sack and, alternatively, rejecting prospective mates without ever getting to know them are all traits that used to be the sole domain of the typical male. But no longer.
Women of today, especially those in their 20’s and 30’s, are increasingly following paths that were once laid out for men and men alone, including adopting the worse of men’s behaviors.
It wasn’t that long ago that women were still subjugated – “lesser-than’s” to their male counterparts. Once upon a time women were expected to stay home and raise the family while men headed off to work to feed, clothe, and house them.
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