Double Your Dating
[rating:4.5]
In this ebook, author David DeAngelo teaches men how to succeed with women without having to sacrifice their integrity or change their natural male-ness.
“Double Your Dating” cracks open the Pandora’s Box that is a woman’s inner nature and lays it all out for you to see plainly and clearly. By understanding what makes a woman tick, and most significantly what makes her different from a man, you put yourself in the position of being able to become the kind of man that women pursue.
And then you don’t have to chase them down or fall all over yourself trying to get them to go out with you. You just “be yourself” (read: exude the qualities they seek out) and let them flock to you.
DeAngelo’s advice in “Double Your Dating” is refreshingly practical. Not only doesn’t he waste your time trying to get you to do the impossible, he outlines what those impossible things are so that you can forget about them and train in instead on those areas in which you can exert some influence and control.
For example, he lays out 6 qualities he says are most attractive to women:
1. Means (read: money)
2. Power and influence
3. Status and fame
4. Appearance
5. Unattainability
6. Personality
But only one of those can you actually affect to any measurable degree, and that’s the last one – your personality.
So instead of advising you to attempt the impossible and gain wealth, power, fame, good looks, and become unavailable before you can get the girl, he tells you how to work on the area where you can really make a difference.
“Double Your Dating” lays out those personality traits that turn women on, and then teaches you, one-by-one, how to cultivate those qualities within yourself and express them in a way that have women swooning over you and coming back for more.
You learn how to communicate with women in a language they can understand. You learn how to tickle a woman’s funny bone. And you learn how to portray both sides of the conflicting qualities they seem to thrive on:
• predictability and unpredictability
• attentiveness and indifference
• expressiveness and mystery
You also learn how to pass women’s many “tests” and how to answer those many questions of hers that you don’t know the “right” answers to and don’t even wish to attempt to answer.
DeAngelo also discusses traits like looks, attitude, and body language – all those subtle, non-verbal cues that give a woman so much of the information she uses to gauge your “worthiness” to be with her.
He teaches you how to make the most of your appearance, whatever your natural looks are. And he teaches you the finer nuances of body language the subtextual communicator that women are always reading more than your words.
Finally, “Double Your Dating” explores even more practical issues facing men in the world of dating, such as issues of timing, and of where, when, and how to:
• meet women
• flirt with them
• pick them up
• and date them
Women may be a mystery – no doubt. But they’re not a mystery you have to solve. Heck, they haven’t even solved the mystery of themselves yet. How are you ever to?
Fortunately, you don’t. You just have to known how to engage in the mystery of them with them. And let all their treasures slowly unfold before the both of you. “Double Your Dating” shows you how.
Sample from the Double Your Dating book:
From Chapter 3:
The Six Things That Attract Women
I’ve done a lot of research on this topic, and I believe that women are most attracted to these six things:
1) Means (Wealth, possessions, gifts to them or providing for them)
2) Power (Influence, Leadership, provide safety)
3) Fame
4) Looks (Including height)
5) Exclusivity (Royalty, already married, hard to get, affiliation)
6) Personality (Humor, creativity, romance, intelligence, mystique etc.)
Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate control. If you’re not rich, you’re probably not going to get rich this week. If you’re not famous or tall, you’re probably not going to be in a hit movie or grow 6 inches in the next 24 hours.
So that leaves us with number six, PERSONALITY.
The good news is that as far as I’m concerned, your personality is your GREATEST ASSET in the success-with-women game.
Fortunately, it’s the one thing you can change. And it’s the one thing that can OVERCOME all of the rest. After you’ve done what you can to look your best, etc. you have to develop a personality that’s absolutely magnetic. Now let’s talk about how you can do just that.
By the way, the one quality that attracts women the most (and keeps them attracted) is not something that they can initially ‘look’ for. It’s the way they FEEL when they are with you or thinking of you. In the end, if you don’t have wealth, power, fame, or looks you’re going to have to use your personality to make them FEEL good. In the end, your personality is the most powerful weapon you have… [continued in Chapter 3]