How Big an Issue is Penis Size Really Anyway?

Beauty isn’t the only thing in the eye of the beholder. So is penis size, for one. And despite popular misconception – bigger is not necessarily better.

Some women can’t get enough of huge members; others live by the credo that “more than a mouthful” is just too much. But far more important than what your woman thinks about it is what you think about it. Because your own position on the self-esteem scale weighs more heavily in any relationship than the weight of your penis.

Benefits of Being Too Small or Too Big

Too small? Too big? There are hidden advantages to both sides of the equation. For example:

Too small could mean:
You’re less likely to cause her pain and discomfort during sex
She’s more likely to be able to take all of you into her mouth for a great blow-job
She’s more likely to be open to anal sex because of your un-intimidating size.

You have less trouble getting raging erections than men who have trouble getting enough blood engorging their members to have and maintain a decent hard-on.

Too big could mean:
You’ve got the Wow factor working for you.
Sex feels better to you because whatever orifice you enter feels tighter than it would if your penis were smaller.
There’s more nerve and muscle to stimulate.
You can last longer in bed, a quality most women would kill for in a man.

Factors in Penis Size

Penis size involves two main factors: length and girth. And if you’re having issues with your penis size (or worse, your ladies are) then one thing to ask yourself is where the problem lies. Are you thick enough but too short? Long enough but too thin? Or too large or small on both accounts?

The size of the head of your penis is also a factor. Typically the mushroom head is bigger around than the shaft, but in many cases it’s just the reverse, with the head being smaller than the rest of the penis.

Who Are You Doing it For?

Are you concerned about your penis size because you worry women won’t like it? Or is it simply that you don’t like feeling that you don’t measure up to other guys?

Because as suggested in the intro paragraph to this article, it shouldn’t be about her. If the woman you’re with has a problem with your penis size, that’s her problem. If it causes her to pull away from you emotionally, then she doesn’t really like you for you anyway and you’re better off without her.

Most guys who have issues with their penis size, however, only think they’re problem is what women will think of it, when really that’s their own anxiety and has no basis in reality outside of their own screwed-up little heads (no pun intended). 99 times out of 100, your penis size doesn’t matter one whit to a girl. The aura of confidence or insecurity you carry around about it, however, matters more than anything.

A guy who’s insecure about his penis size typically wears that insecurity on his sleeve. Women (and most men) can see that self-deprecating look and feel that low self-worth coming a mile away. In these most common of cases, the solution is not to change your penis size, but to change how you think of yourself.

Walk around with self-composed, self-assured, self-loving confidence with you wherever you go and the size of your penis becomes a moot point (again, no pun intended). Make your sense of self-worth bigger than your penis size (or your problem with it) and you come across to others (including women) as a strapping big lad, regardless of your actual penis size.

It’s Not the Size that Counts

Here is the one statement that should eradicate all instances of penis envy – if only the men suffering from it could accept and believe it:

It’s not the size of your penis,
but what you do with it that matters.

And it’s so true! Plenty of impressively endowed men don’t know the first thing about pleasing a woman. And it doesn’t take 9 inches to find the clitoris or the G-spot. Anyone can learn to master sexual technique, and all it takes is initiative – not a honking phallus.

Learn how to use the gifts you’ve been given and you’ll have the ladies swooning, regardless of size and shape of things hanging between your legs.

Making Your Penis Larger

Now if, after reading all this, you still want to make your penis bigger then there are several measures to try. You can find many products (like penis pumps), as well as exercises, vitamins, and other tools for increasing penis size.

Do they really work? It depends on who you ask. Do your research, read customer testimonials, and always check for a money-back guarantee before buying into anything. There are a lot of predators out there looking to make a fast buck off of penis envy. Don’t let yourself be suckered into their big claims and promises.

Making Your Penis Smaller

Alas there is far less available to the man who wishes to reduce his penis size (beyond surgery, that is). For such men, the psychological treatments for penis envy mentioned above are the only avenues you’ve really got.

Alternatively, you can make the most of what God and your parents genes gave you and learn how to use it in a way that brings a woman pleasure without pain. The two simple steps to achieve this are:
Provide ample foreplay – to relax her, loosen her up, and get her all nice and wet.
Take your time – because you may be amazed at how much penis a woman can really take when you take giving it to her nice and slow and steady.

A Closing Thought on Sexual Satisfaction

Lastly, don’t ever forget that there are innumerable ways to satisfy your woman that don’t even involve your penis. And that’s what sex is really all about – providing each other pleasure. If you can master the various sexual activities other than intercourse – i.e. cunnilingus – then your penis – too large or too small as it may be (or, to be more accurate, as you may think it is) – doesn’t even enter the picture.