How to Scare Any Woman Of In One Easy Step: The Biggest Mistake Men Make with Women and the Best Way to Be Sure Never to Get a Second Date with One (If You Can Even Land a First Date)

How do you get a woman to lose interest in you in just a few seconds flat? Bore her.

Single women like a man with zest! Personality! That "spark" women always talk about looking for with a guy?

Well, that requires a spark. You have to light it. It doesn't just happen on its own. A spark signifies fire, and that's what women are looking for in a guy - someone that lights their candle, ignites their passion, makes them hot, sets them ablaze.

You don't do that doing everything "right". By being the perfect golden boy they can take home to Mom and Dad. There's no heat there. And all you'll get for your efforts is an icy cold reception.

Now, that's not to say that women are necessarily looking for a complete and total a-hole (though some sure are), but they certainly don't want Mr. Nice Guy either. Mr. Nice Guy is boring. He tries to be the perfect date by being everything he thinks a woman wants:

• courtesy
• gentleness
• sensitivity
• all the things women in relationship complain that their boyfriends are not

He does everything in his power not to offend, and in so doing comes across as an A-1 pussy. Women seek excitement, adventure, and romance from the men they date, and a big part of that includes exciting their sensibilities, stimulating their mind and emotions. You can't do this by taking every conversation starter from Miss Manners' Dating 101 playbook: be a gentleman, buy her things, agree with everything she says, give her whatever she asks for, and treat her like royalty. No, you have to push their buttons without pushing them over the top (and, in so doing, push them away).

You have to turn them on, and you don't do that by:
talking about the same socially appropriate topics everyone's "supposed" to talk about on a date (family, hobbies),

• playing it safe,
• following her lead,
• behaving "properly",
• or taking care to avoid doing or saying anything that might upset her or throw her off guard

These are all the characteristics of the classic wuss. A wuss lets women walk all over him. If they're late or if they flake on a date, he's quick to forgive because (typically) he's so lonely he'll do anything to keep the ball in play. Anything, that is, except grow a backbone.

Instead he kisses their asses by letting them get away with totally manipulative behavior. He does whatever she wants to do and takes her wherever she wants to go on a date. His personal tastes be damned! In short, a wuss lets the women he's with control every facet of everything situation they're in, with no regard for his own feelings.

This makes him seem like he has

• no self-esteem,
• no sense of self-worth,
• no opinions,
• no personality.

He leaves a woman feeling like she's not dating a man but a cardboard cut-out of one.

It is when a woman is off guard that she is most primed to be turned on. Kissing her ass isn't going to get you anywhere. But giving her a gentle and unexpected kick in the ass now and again just might.

Most guys think that when they hear women complain about being driven crazy by the guys they're dating that it's a bad thing. Something they want to avoid. Who wants to be the guy that that woman is bitching about?

You do!

Because while you may think that driving a woman crazy is something to be avoided, the truth is it's exactly what you want to try and cultivate. Women eat it up, when a guy is a pain in their asses. A guy who's not isn't even worth a second thought from them. But a guy that does make them insane, drives them up the wall, is the guy that's on their minds 24/7. Women thrive on the drama that going head to head with a real bull-headed man delivers. He's the one she can't stop thinking about. He's the one she's talking to all her friends about when she should be working, or living her life. He's the one she eventually comes to realize she can't do without, because she's addicted to that drama. It fills her days and nights. Without it, her life is empty. Boring.

So if you want to scare a woman off, by all means be the perfect - BORING - gentleman. If you want to be submissive, go poring through the adult classifieds and seek out a dominatrix. If, however, you want to snag a hot girlfriend (or several), or just get laid tonight and tomorrow night and the night after, then:

• be unpredictable
• disagree with her occasionally
• poke light fun at her/tease her
• find atypical places to take her, activities to participate in, and things to talk about

Be different. Be provocative. Be controversial. Be your own man - not everyman, and certainly not the man you think women want you to be.

Yes, it's a catch-22 - because once you get the girl, you do have to perform a little personality adjustment in order to keep them. But right now you don't have a girlfriend. You don't even have a date. You've got nothing, and the way most of you are trying to change that is by going about it all wrong. Women might want to spend the rest of their lives with a guy that treats them right. But they don't necessarily want to date him. It's the sense of uncertainty, excitement, and stimulation that gets a girl interested in you. Acting like the perfect boyfriend is jumping the gun. You're not her boyfriend. You're the guy who's trying to sweep her off her feet (or get in her pants) and either way, you're not going to be able to do it with meek, apologetic, textbook dating behavior.

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