Meeting Women Explained: Where the Best Places Are to Meet Women and How to Meet Women

In this article you’ll learn the two fundamental parts of picking up women:

1. where to meet them
2. and how to meet them

Where Are the Best Places to Meet Women

OK, so you’re sick and tired of bars and clubs – as well you should be. It’s not that the chances of meeting a woman at bar or a club is so small. On the contrary, there is arguably a huger concentration of women – and more: single and available women – in these kinds of places than almost anywhere else. The problems are:

• the competition there is fierce
• the women there have their guards up, expecting they’ll be hit on and preparing to find fault with 99% of the guys who try

As for another method with proven results but equally challenging odds not all of us can be lucky enough to be introduced to our future girlfriend by a mutual friend. It’s rare that opportunities to try even arise, and when they do, most of the time the mutual friend turns out to have done a frightful job calling a “perfect match”. If compatibility matters to you, then don’t refuse an opportunity to be set up with a girl by a mutual friend. Just don’t expect it, don’t look for it, don’t wait around for it, and – for goodness sake – don’t ask them to do it (unless you have a specific woman in mind, in which case it can’t hurt to ask).

And as for office romances and other workplaces romances, we’re not even going to get into it (and we’re certainly not going to advise it).

Trying to meet women at bars, clubs, at work, or get set up by mutual friends can only get you so far. Sure, you could find the girl of your dreams one of these ways. It’s been known to happen. But the success/failure ratio can get exhausting, if not exasperating. And ultimately downright discouraging and disheartening.

No, you need to explore some other, better options, and here are some of the best of them:

• department stores
• bookstores
• coffee shops
• outdoor parks

The characteristics that all of these places have that make them such great options are that they are all:

• relaxed
• laid back
• places where people are typically sitting still or at least moving at a slower pace

It’s easier to approach a woman, be well-received, and strike up a conversation when she’s not in a rush to get somewhere or get something accomplished.

Beyond those, some other decent (if a bit more challenging) places to meet women include:

• malls and department stores
• grocery stores
• airports, train stations, subway stations, and bus stops
• the gym

One final set of options involves getting a bit more committed to the process from the outset, but comes with excellent opportunities to meet, talk with, and get to know women, and excellent odds of finding one who’ll go out with you, includes:
joining a club or group – like a hiking club, a book club, a support group, or other regular gathering of people with a common interest
volunteering – for a political organization, a community group, or a charity close to your heart
religious services – attending church or temple services is a great way to meet women, as long as you actually practice (or at least subscribe to) the religion for whose services you attend. Otherwise you could have dire consequences in store for yourself…(with the women, we mean; we’re sure you-know-who will understand).

And then of course there is the seat you’re now sitting in, logged into the world wide web. Yes, online dating can have many great rewards in store for you. Some of the great benefits of meeting women online are:

• anonymity
• you don’t have to get dressed up and drive somewhere
• you can view photos and profiles of thousands of women looking to meet men
• you get to know a little about the women you see before you meet them
• she can see a photo of you and learn something about you in order to better decide if she’s interested, which is usually in your favor
• when you do make contact, you know from the start that there’s a better chance of compatibility between you than in any of the other places listed above
• you can have a low-key, low-pressure online correspondence before taking the next steps of talking on the phone and then finally meeting for a first date

Lastly, we return to the subject of bars and clubs with a few possibilities in this category that you may not yet have explored:
classier bars

going out on quieter and less popular nights of the week

• Happy Hour
• specialty bars - like a wine bar

Now that that’s settled, once you get there, you next need to know…

How to Meet Women

Let’s cut the B.S. and get right to it, shall we?

Step outside of your comfort zone: Approaching an attractive women takes courage. Courage to face your fears of approaching attractive women. There is no way out of any fear other than through it. Courage doesn’t mean ‘not being afraid’. It means ‘being afraid and doing what you’re afraid of anyway!’

So stop procrastinating. Stop making excuses that you’re waiting for the right moment. To borrow from another cliché’ – you’ve got to leave sight of the shore before you can discover new lands. And if you keep doing whatever it is you’ve been doing, what you’re comfortable doing, you’ll never get anywhere with women. You’ve got to be willing to get a little uncomfortable in order to approach a woman and start a conversation with her. You’ve just got to suck it up and accept it. Accept it like a man.

See it, then feel it: Before you write this off as a bunch of new age mojo bullsh*t, try it first – see yourself doing and having the things you want to do and have. Then feel what doing and having them feels like now, as if you were doing and having them in this moment. See yourself going up to that beautiful woman, striking up a conversation, and having her respond with mutual interest and attraction. Feel what that would feel like if it was happening right now. See yourself having a long and stimulating conversation with her that ends with an exchange of numbers and evolves into a great first date.

And then…you got it – feel it as if it were happening now. It works. And if it doesn’t for you at first, keep doing it, Because it will. And there’s no harm in experimenting with visualizing and experiencing yourself as successful with women. It’s certainly not going to make things any worse.

Other than that, all we can do is steal a popular slogan that says it better than we ever could – Just Do It!

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