A proliferation of dating gurus and PUAs (that’s shorthand for “Pick-Up Artists") circulate the web teaching tactics of questionable ethics and methods of attracting women based on trickery and manipulation. A lot of self-styled players out there are taking money from good-hearted (if awkward, insecure, and desperate) single men in exchange for a personality makeover that disrespects women and dishonors themselves.
However, there are more than a handful of other dating gurus and PUAs who are enlightened gentlemen with as much of a track record for consistent, proven success with the ladies without all the game-playing, deception, and deceit. What’s more, the techniques practiced by these more honorable men can be taught and learned just as easily as those presented by the less morally gifted bad apples among them.
Make no mistake: the lessons of both these types of teachers can and do work in winning men dates (and more) with women—in the short term. But only those who use what’s been termed a “natural approach” (or even a “natural game” in some circles) will win women’s respect and affection for the long term.
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The Problem: Sexually Unsatisfied Women
By now it’s become common knowledge that many women do not achieve orgasm during intercourse. This sole fact has been the cause of much of the friction that goes on between couples, since a man leaves the sexual encounter satisfied while the woman…not so much.
One reason people typically give for this happening is that the man ejaculates too soon and after that is too “spent” to continue the lovemaking session until the woman finishes too. But as those women who are (supposedly) fortunate enough to have men with great stamina will tell you, duration of intercourse is not always enough to take a woman to orgasm. In fact it rarely is.
So if stamina isn’t the issue, then what is? The answer, of course, is technique.
The Solution: Coital Alignment Technique
Enter coital alignment technique. Called CAT for short, this is a sexual position that is designed to help stimulate the woman’s clitoris more than in “ordinary” sex and thereby helping the woman to achieve orgasm more easily.
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by Roosh V
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Sometimes there is the question of "when" you should approach a girl.
How about if you just came in and still have your coat on?
How about if she just came in the bar and didn't even get her first drink yet? How about if she is on her way to the bathroom?
I don't have 100% correct answers to these types of situations, but I do know that there will ALWAYS ALWAYS be a better time to approach a girl. You can always be in a better mood, you can be more "on," the environment could be quieter, or she could be standing still simply looking around for any guy to talk to her.
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by Simone Grant
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Alright guys, lets get this out of the way: Online dating is easy. If you’ve tried it and didn’t get any dates, it’s because you were doing it wrong. I repeat, if you’ve tried online dating and couldn’t get any women to go out with you, it’s because you were doing it wrong.
Let me be clear here, it’s not because they didn’t want to go out with YOU. You might be a great guy. Online dating is a skill. Like playing poker or skiing or even driving a car. It’s not hard. Anyone can do it. But you have to do it right in order to be successful. Otherwise you’re going to end up broke or hurt or well, you get it.
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by Roosh V
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If a girl tries to reschedule the first date, you are looking at something that could kill the interaction. (If she reschedules on a date well after you had sex with her, then it's usually not a big deal.)
The time between getting her number and seeing her again is when most girls flake, so it's important you keep that time to under one week. You call within a couple days of meeting her and schedule a date for a couple days after that. If too much time passes until she sees you again, momentum is lost and the interaction loses importance in her mind.
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I like meeting girls at coffee shops because their guard is down and they are easier to talk to.
To meet them I go to coffee shops that are crowded so that I'm forced to share a table. What I do is look around, find the prettiest girl, and regardless of how much stuff she has on her table, I politely ask if I can join her.
Unless she has a friend coming, the answer will always be yes.
I sit down, get my book or laptop out, and wait a few minutes before I start a conversation, where I make a comment about the environment we're in (maybe how busy the coffee shop is), a book she is reading, or something unique about her. I often say the first inoffensive question or statement that pops in my head.
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I was talking to a girl in the club for two hours. I'm not sure if I really liked her or not, but the club was closing and there was no way her group of five friends were going to let me leave with her.
"It was very nice meeting you." I said. I made it seem like this was my goodbye.
"Hey why don't you give me your number?" she said.
"Why? So you can call me on the phone?"
"Umm yeah," she said.
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I'm going to skip the whole moral argument that you shouldn't hit on a girl who has a boyfriend. If you don't believe in hitting on girls who have boyfriend then that's cool, otherwise read on.
First, don't even bother with newly engaged or married girls. I think you'll have better chances with a nun than a girl who just made a huge commitment with another man. It takes at least a few months for that to wear out.
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