It’s what every man wants to know. An ages old mystery. And at least some of the most time-tested and proven answers are right here, in 1200 words or less.
Of course women, like all human beings, want nothing more or less than to have their needs met. What those needs are, however, is not always the same, or in the same proportions, for both women and men.
1-Security
Women yearn to feel safe in the world. Like they’re taken care of. And even in the worst of times, the leanest of times, that they’ll be okay.
Now, in this day and age, many women, maybe even a majority, are no longer looking to men to provide this security and safety for them. They’re no longer depending on a man to make this happen. Rather they’re going out into the world and obtaining that security for themselves.
But even those women would be lying if they didn’t admit that it would be nice not to feel like they had to do so. Being able to provide for oneself and take care of oneself is so much more enjoyable when it’s done out of choice and not out of necessity.
So while today’s woman no longer necessarily want to feel like she needs a man to take care of her, it’s nice to know that one can. And as such, it’s extremely desirable to find a man with the ability to provide security for a woman, whether she needs it or not. And a man that can do so is extremely attractive to women.
2-Excitement
Men (and many women too) often mistake this particular yearning as a need for “drama”, but it’s really not like that. You can have excitement without drama. It’s just that too often women have found that drama is the only form of excitement they can dredge out of men.
But look at it like two sides of the same coin, or the Yin and the Yang of the same emotional craving. The kind of excitement that comes from a lot of screaming and yelling, conflict and resolution, fighting and making up, suspicions and jealousy – these all represent the negative side of excitement.
But deliberate excitement in the form of passion and adventure is the flip side, the positive side of excitement. That’s why women love movies with heroic men, because they unflinchingly seek out and take on adventure, always in defense of a higher good.
Excitement is an emotional charge, a burst of energy that momentarily heightens one’s experience of life and removes one from the lackadaisical day-to-day doldrums. There are innumerable ways you can infuse a bit of this type of excitement into your dating life without caving into drama.
Amusement parks, for example. Or any activity they’ve never done before. And then there are surprises, especially when they know one’s coming but don’t yet know what it is. In fact, the excitement of anticipation is one of the most desirable forms of excitement to women imaginable. For a woman, a little mystery goes a long way.
3-Sensuality
Women want to feel sensual and they want to feel pleasure. They want to feel like their very presence produces an air of sensual stimulation and they want to feel that stimulation coming back to them.
One part of cultivating this is to always remember to find something about the woman you’re with to compliment. And change it up. Don’t make it always the same thing. See what she’s got going on this time that stands out as particularly enticing. Give her a way of building on her various sensualities over time: one day her hair, another her day her lipstick, another day her perfume, another day her outfit, another day her smile, her laugh, her eyes, her teeth, the way she walks, something she says, and on and on. The more you point out the things she does and wears that you like, the more she can grow her bag of tricks for turning you on.
Another part of cultivating this sensuality is take pride in your appearance. It’s a great boost to a woman’s ego, and an incredible turn-on, for a woman to know that she’s with a man that other women find desirable. So make yourself look as sharp as you can, turn as many women’s heads as you can (though pretend not to notice). And she’ll feel like she’s got the best-looking catch in the room.
And while you want to avoid coming on to her sexually too strong and too soon, gentle touches here and there are like electricity to her. Nothing major, mind you. Just a palm against her shoulder-blade as she’s walking past you through a door you’re holding open for her. Or a gentle squeeze of the hand for a moment as you’re sitting together in the theater waiting for the show to start. There are lots of ways of making brief physical contact that can light a woman on fire without making her feel like you’re pawing at her.
4-Attention
Finally, what women want is a man who’s genuinely interested in them. Listen to her when she talks and respond directly to the things she’s saying. When you’re together, keep your eyes on her. Avoid expressing anything that could make her feel like you want her to look, act, think, or be different than she already is.
Put your full attention on the woman you’re with and she will reward you with all she has to give.
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