A good man can be hard to find, and when you do find him it can be tricky to read exactly what he’s
looking for in a partner. While some men may have specific ideals for a partner, it’s more than likely
that most are looking for the same traits as you.

Someone to share his interests with

If you like the same music or support the same sports team, it’s undeniably a massive bonus, but
finding someone with those exact qualities isn’t always realistic. For men, it is about finding a
woman with the whole package, even if it means compromising on a few minor details.

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Paying Hard To GetThere is a great myth in the dating world that has been sold to women as solid dating advice for years.

The “Great Myth” can be summed up in eight words:

“MEN WANT A WOMAN WHO IS HARD TO GET”

Let me start by saying: THIS BELIEF IS A FALLACY. And I’m going to tell you why.
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Social CircleSo many women allow their social circle to become a roadblock in their love lives rather than their greatest asset. One of the most frequent complaints I get from women are those who say: “All my friends are married/in relationships” or “I just don’t have the kind of fun, single friends I need.” Now, if either of these is the case, you’re going to be limiting spending your social time with other people who don’t have that same drive that you need to really get you going.
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Mr RightWhat’s your ideal ‘type’?

First things first, let’s get out of the idea of “types”. People shouldn’t be pigeonholed into typical stereotypes, “Intellectual” “Bad boy” “Nice guy”, etc.

There are two problems with this kind of ‘types’ approach to dating:
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Internet DatingInternet dating is a source of dates that many people turn to when they feel like they just don’t meet enough people. Though I never want to discredit any method women use to meet men, there are some inherent problems with solely relying on Internet dating as your lead source for men.

Let me explain why…

1. You won’t exercise your social muscles

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Setting Up The First Date

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The first date with a guy is actually set up the first time you meet him.

What I mean by this is that in your initial conversation with a guy, you want to be creating all kinds of different opportunities that makes it easier to suggest a date later on. For example, you drop a hint: “I haven’t been to the zoo in ages. I really want to go!” This makes it easy for him or you to bring it up later, instead of it sounding strange and out of the blue.

Role Play

Alternatively you can always create a role-play that makes it really easy for you to suggest the next meet up: “Hey bodyguard, I’m going to need your services this Saturday for that gallery. They’ll be paparazzi all over the place!” (By the way, you don’t only have to use this bodyguard example; you can use different role-plays that suit your character more.)
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How do you flirt with a man and really get him fascinated in you? Forget about your looks, forget about the best ways to meet men, forget about all the dating advice you’ve ever heard before, because if you can’t flirt effectively and you’re not having fun with the guys that you’re attracted to, then you are seriously reducing your chances of attracting the right kind of guy.

It’s common for women who are becoming more outgoing and speaking to more men, to switch into interrogator mode when trying to chat up a guy; asking question after question as nothing else to say comes

Flirting Properly

1. Be willing to break rapport

Studies have proved that the occasional disagreement is far more attractive than speaking with someone who you agree with 100% of the time.
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The first date with a guy is actually set up the first time you meet him.

What I mean by this is that in your early conversations you want to be creating all kinds of different opportunities that makes it easier to suggest a date later on. For example, you drop a hint: “I haven’t been to the zoo in ages. I really want to go!” This makes it easy for him or you to bring it up later, instead of it sounding strange and out of the blue.

A. Contacting him

Some women are terrified of ever contacting a guy first; but it’s okay to initiate things. Just don’t overwhelm someone with essay-long texts everyday.

No more bland texts e.g. “Hey, I’m so bored, what u up to?”

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Let’s imagine for a second that you’re in a bar; you’ve just spotted a good-looking guy that you want to talk too. How do you get him over?

The first step to attracting men, as I’m sure you will have guessed is eye contact.

1) “The look” – how to do it right.

What you ideally want to do is one quick look in his direction, but then another where you hold his eye contact for just one second longer so that he registers your interest. [click to continue…]

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The 4 Best Places To Meet Men

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A lot of women find it hard to meet men simply because they don’t know where to look! Finding your dream guy doesn’t have to be as endless a search as looking for a needle in a haystack.

In order to find a guy you’re attracted too, simply think about where your type of guy congregates, and start thinking rationally about the places that you’d be likely to find the.

Here are some ideas of where to being:

1. Bookshops

There is something about a bookshop that hints at an air of romance. If you’re looking to seriously narrow your search for a guy with the same interests as you, then go to a bookshop and approach the men browsing your favourite literature.
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